I just spent a few days with my Grandchildren. So many phases were observed and enjoyed. Others, not so much, but a learning curve none the less.
My almost 9 month Grandbaby showed great joy with tissue paper. So much fun to tear and throw and scrunch and throw! She loved it when Mommy cascaded the tissue paper, over her head in a wonderful display of colours. Boxes made pretty good drums too. These both held her attention for quite a while. Then when everything became too much, and tears flowed from a sleepy baby, cuddles held her safe.
My eldest Granddaughter at age 3 is tenacious. She gets an idea in her head and diversion has no effect. She wanted a new bed (already has one), but was unable to communicate that she wanted a new bed for her parents so they could cuddle in the big bed. Mommy & Daddy know her language and the meaning behind the questioning.
My Grandson at age 1 is pretty patient for the most part, except when it comes to food. He will try just about anything and will get food right up to his elbows as he tastes and consumes it. Unable to communicate his needs just yet (sign language not working at this time) he gives an ear splitting scream. When cleaned up and cuddled he just nuzzled into his mothers neck. He truly knew what he wanted and that was the comfort of his parents from a tired little boy.
As I watched my Grandchildren I appreciated their expressions of what they wanted, and did not want. They would not be distracted. How often as adults do we NOT express our needs or wants. How often do we get distracted from our goals? How often do we give up on our dreams to follow another’s plans for us?
Children don’t consider it hard work to get their needs met, they just do it. We always say that children learn so much from us. Have you stopped to consider how much we can learn from them? Try to look beyond the behaviours to see & hear what the meaning is that they wish to impart.
I look forward to many more phases in my Grandchildren’s lives. May you look forward to new adventure in your life!